“I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion.
I will betroth you in faithfulness, and you will acknowledge the Lord.” Hosea 2:19-20
When we hear the word betrothed, our minds often go to Mary and Joseph. Their story—so central to Advent and Christmas—reminds us of a promise given but not yet fulfilled, a time of faithfulness in the waiting. Betrothal is more than an engagement; it is a covenant of love and commitment, an assurance that the relationship is real even before its final fulfillment.
In Hosea, God used this imagery to express His unwavering love for Israel. Despite their repeated unfaithfulness, He declared His desire to be bound to them in righteousness, justice, love, and faithfulness. Even when they turned to false gods and strayed from His commandments, He did not abandon them. Instead, He extended an invitation to return, pointing toward a future where redemption would be complete.
That future hope finds its fulfillment in Jesus Christ. The betrothal between God and His people was leading somewhere—not just to restoration under the Law but to the coming of the Messiah. In Christ, the bridegroom arrived, and through Him, the Church—the bride—is called into a relationship of eternal love and faithfulness.
As you journey through Lent, you’re invited to reflect on your own relationship with Christ. Are you responding to the bridegroom’s love with the same faithfulness He has shown you? Are you living in His righteousness, justice, and compassion? As Dr. Timothy Tennent reminds us, “The love of God is not a passive affection but an active, redemptive force that calls us into holy living.” Our faith is not merely about waiting but about actively preparing, growing, and witnessing to a world in need of Christ’s love.
I pray this season is a time of renewed commitment to your faith and to Jesus. Like Mary and Joseph, we are called to be ready to welcome Jesus into every part of our lives. Stand firm in His faithfulness, living as people who are eagerly anticipating the day when the bridegroom and the bride will be united forever.
~Steve